Haha man I’m getting all the heavy questions this week! (I kinda like it!)
Ummm well the first thing that I want to say is make sure that you’re ready. I know people say that all the time but it’s true. Don’t do it just because the other person wants you to or you feel pressured by peers or anything. I had sex for the first time when I was almost 16 years old and honestly, if I could go back I would wait. I wasn’t ready. At all. He wanted to and was begging me and begging me and then finally I just gave in. But, please don’t be like me. You should never “GIVE IN” to giving up your virginity. I wish I would have waited until I was sure at least, and I would have LOVED for my boyfriend now to have had me for the first time.
Also you will ALWAYS remember your first one. He/she will always be a part of you and when you think about sex that person will always come to mind, so make sure you’re okay with having that person be a permanent chapter in your life. I just saw my ex who took my virginity this past weekend actually, and you know how it was? HORRIBLE. He acted like he didn’t even know who I was and didn’t feel the need to acknowledge me even after I made an attempt. So yeah it sucks that someone who took something from me that I can’t and won’t ever get back….doesn’t even have the nerve to look me In the eye.
But anyways I’m not trying to scare you or talk you out of it, but be ready, for yourself. You should love the person and you should have a special moment.
Oh speaking of “special moments” don’t think that it’s gonna be like the movies. My first time (and I’m sure a lot would agree) was pretty awful/awkward/stressful haha. People think it’s gonna be this sexy thing but in reality it CAN be hilarious and awkward. He was a virgin and I was a virgin and neither of us had ANY IDEA what we were doing haha. It was like “is this okay?….ouch that hurts…ok that’s better…am I crushing you?” Hahaha
But I hope this helps. I’m always here if you need me :)